Rider - I set the pace, close and eye to eye. Spooning for kisses on the neck is dangerously sweet
Turns On
Slow pace, hands on your waist & back, kisses on your neck, gentle dominance, whispering in your ear, lots of foreplay - I love it when you patiently respond to my every signal
Turns Off
Disrespect, haste, rudeness without agreement, insults, ignoring boundaries. No rush, no coercion - cleanliness, condom & consent are mandatory