You get turned on by confidence mixed with tenderness—when someone knows what they want but still takes their time with you. Soft touches, lingering eye contact, whispered words, and feeling desired without being rushed light that slow burn inside you.
Turns Off
Disrespect, impatience, or being treated like an object shuts things down immediately. Cold energy, lack of hygiene, or someone who doesn’t listen to your boundaries klls the mood fast. You need chemistry and mutual desire—without that, nothing else matters.
