I am aroused by total control: financial domination, humiliation, just punishments, and the ritual of submission. A slave who surrenders to my power, who pays me tribute, and who understands that his pleasure is a privilege I grant him.
Turns Off
Fake submissives, those who only talk and don't act. Disrespect and excuses. If you say you'll do something, do it! Mediocrity and laziness are my biggest aversion. You either give 100% or you're ignored.