I like it when he speaks calmly and confidently, not trying to impress but just being himself. When there is a pause between us - not awkward, but warm, filled with anticipation. I'm drawn to attention to detail.
Turns Off
It repulses me when a man tries to appear to be someone else instead of being himself. When he interrupts, doesn't listen, doesn't notice my words and emotions - like he only needs the conversation to tick.