What turns me on:
Security and control (take the initiative).
Generosity (tokens flowing).
The dirty talk and the attention.
See that you get excited without hesitation.
Turns Off
What turns me off:
Stinginess (ask for free).
Indecision or extreme shyness.
Rudeness (you have to know how to seduce).
The passive onlookers.
morbidity, intimacy without filters