• When you tell me you're watching me
• Compliments that make me blush
• Generous boys — with tips and with words
• When you tell me what to do 😏
• Attention. Lots of it
Turns Off
• Rudeness without fun and without tips
• "Show me for free" — nope, sweetie
• Silent lurkers who never say a word
• Pressure and disrespect
• Boring politics talk