Control appeals to me, but respect i***ey. I like to explore power, pleasure, and that delicious space where surrender and provocation blend. If you know how to turn me on with words, if you understand that desire simmers… then maybe, just maybe, I'll let you play with me.
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Talking to me like we're in a porn movie? Total cringe. If you have to insult me to get turned on, you've already lost. I'm not interested in you "putting me in my place" or gauging my level of submission.