I get turned on by an atmosphere of complete attention and safety. When you're fully here and now — listening, seeing, feeling. When I don't have to be afraid to be myself.
Turns Off
I'm put off by people who are rude or fake. When someone speaks condescendingly, doesn't keep their word, or only sees themselves. Pressure and pushiness also kill any interest instantly. Anything that destroys the feeling of safety and respect just switches off my desire to get closer.
