A good conversation that begins with curiosity and ends in desire excites me. I love when a man knows how to use his words, looks at me with intensity and makes me feel like I'm the only one on his mind.
Turns Off
I don't like rudeness without respect or rush. It turns me off when someone forgets that this is about connection, not just pleasure.
Bad words out of context, rude orders or rude attitudes ruin the atmosphere.