I love it when things get a little rough - it comes from a good pair of spankings and let me feel your mark. If you want to see me really enjoy it, put me on all fours or ask me to go up to take control.
Turns Off
Disrespect: Out-of-context insults or rude demands turn me off instantly. Here we come to enjoy.
The insistence without tip: I love to please you, but I value my time and my work. Don't ask for free content or "samples" if you're not willing to play by the room's rules.