I am turned on by the tension created by an intense gaze, the slow game that provokes the imagination, and words spoken at just the right moment. It turns me on to feel desired, admired, and pampered by someone who is confident, knows how to flirt, and enjoys the moment.
Turns Off
Bad attitudes and lack of respect kill the mood instantly. I’m turned off by rude behavior, impatience, demanding without giving, and people who don’t value my time or energy.